Reason Number 1: WOMEN COMMUNICATE
I know, I know "men communicate too" but here's the honest truth( as if there is any other type of truth lol)
women communicate what needs to be known, rather than what they think you want to hear. Men tend to communicate what they feel will make you perform better, so they can come faster, but no worries guys. . . We LOVE sexual shit talking but it's kind of . . . How do you say . . . BASIC!
Just as basic as you perceive us to be when we do not arch our backs to the perfection of your perception.
My first encounter with a dominant woman opened up a new portal to not only my sexuality, but sensuality and self worth. Simply because she gave me valuable feedback that I've never once received from a man. Her words validated the appreciation I had already felt through her selfless act of allowing me release with no expectation in return. Not only did she set the mood appropriately beforehand, she never once rushed me or got impatient during the process.
To the men reading here's a quick tip
Mental stimulation is everything! (No worries these two profound words will get a number of their own, so keep reading)
Reason Number 2: WOMEN ARE PATIENT LOVERS
Intimacy with a woman can last for hours, upon hours and truly this is what every woman seeks!
PATIENT, and healing, long lasting intimacy!
A part from having a higher sex drive than men (trust me we do, we just aren't nearly as thirsty for it because we subconsciously seek quality sex)
Women are patient and strategic lovers when allowed control.
(Emphasis on when allowed control) Something the ego of most men will not allow. (Just to clarify allowing control is more than letting a woman ride or perform fellatio.)
It's about being sensual and allowing those heightened hormones to become a journey before you rush to insert yourself in her.
Reason Number 3: Women Know Women
Whether women want to honor this concept or not, it is factual. We know what we like and often times it is not far from what the next woman likes also.
Do not be confused, each individual is different..... HOWEVER, knowledge of ones body can give valuable insight about other vessels such as yourself and vice versa.
On the flip side what you do not learn from self-masturbation, you will learn from intimacy with another woman.
Let's be honest, the average woman of today does not know her body. In fact, this is one of the primary reasons (apart from the lack of provision and protection of majority of men) that the universe are bringing woman to woman relationships to the forefront.
Would I reccomend sex be the place you resort to, to find out about your body and intimate needs primarily?
Absolutely NOT, but intimacy (into me I see) can be a divine reflection and a catalyst for growth and expansion in all areas of your life.
Last but NOT least
Reason Number 4: Mental Stimulation
You can absoultely disregard every reason prior to this, but no one serves mental stimulation (even in heterosexual relationships) quite as a effectively as a woman or a man who is in tune with his feminine side.
This should've been number one, why? Because mental stimulation is the beginning of the sensuality that leads to a heightened and fulfilling sexual experience.
Mind over matter!!!!
Her mentals must be stroked, FIRST! Words will move a woman, much further than your fingers ever will. WHY? because she is a visionary, intuitive feelings will always surpass physical touch and a part of intuition is imagination.
This is why a lot of women close their eyes during intimacy. Women know that you cannot just jump right into sex, it's corny and inconsiderate.
I am a firm believer in establishing the neccessary bonds your journey requires.
I do not subscribe to any labels such as bi, lesbian etc.
I see value in self discovery with women, but I learned I am not interested in long term relationships with them.
Everything is a learning process but at the end of the day I chose what is best for my path as a master manifestor and respect others in their choice for theirs.
I see value in all experiences and keep an open mind for healing as well as, learning.
Be able to discern between what is meant for a time and what is meant to last through time.
So there you have it & I trust that the information is well received.
Copyright © 2017 Melanin Reigns Essentials LLC. All rights reserved.
Meet Your Writer✨
Melanin Reigns is a spiritual counselor, freelance writer and multifaceted creator.
As a performing artist with the Speak Life Tour, she takes on music, written/spoken word, and hosting as a form of mentorship and a way to give back to the community.
On first and third Tuesdays Mrs.Reigns hosts “The Mentoring Clinic” on WOLB 1010, with intent to shine a light on community businesses and organizations. More than just a writer or entrepreneur she is 360 degrees of versatility.
The motivation of her efforts is powered by her love for the inner child and rewiring of the human heart and psyche.
For more online work visit the "Reading Reignbow" under the @MrsMelaninReigns on MelaninReigns.com
You can find all social media pages under @MrsMelaninReigns
Tune into Melanin Monday's at 10 pm Est on Facebook Live for insight and updates.
-Where to Find Her?
'Melanin Mondays' @ 11:30 a.m EST.
The Mentoring Clinic
WOLB 1010 am Radio
1st & 3rd Tuesday's from 1-2p.m EST
Mrs. Reigns tours exclusively with Speak Life Tour , see Speaklifetour.org for dates.
ALL Social Media @MrsMelaninReigns