Absolutely NOT, After all is there anything actually negative about being single? We have ourselves, family, close friends, pets, as well as, friends with benefits that we can call when we are in need of romantic intimacy. So doomed is certainly an innacurate word to describe the situation. However, the truth of the matter is that Alpha females are attracted to Alpha Males but most Alpha Males are attracted to beta females. Two major problems here, alpha males are about 1 out of every 100 men (and that statistic may even be too generous in today's world.) The average man is already outnumbered by women, so the rarity of an alpha male is even more strenuous on the alpha female. Secondly, the attraction Alpha-females feel for Alpha-males is often one sided because they seek Beta-Females. Why is this? The Alpha Male's drive is based upon the need to be needed, whereas the Alpha Females' are based upon the need to acquire collective "self sustainability". Also, Alpha Females can sometimes appear too masculine to Alpha Males, which repels them from seeking long lasting partnerships with them apart from consensual sex, or business relations. Strangley, this same distorted perception of energy is the same aspect that attracts Beta males to the Alpha Female. What all men should keep in mind is that because masculine energy is outwardly exerted, and feminine energy is about depth. . . A single Alpha Female must tap into survival mode, in order to protect herself thus, she may seem overbearing in her masculine energy when doing so because it is a vital part of her essence that is not glorified or accepted in conformed society. Why? Because conformed society urges us to be imbalanced in our energies. They teach that a proper woman is to be feminine all the time and a proper man is to be masculine all the time. Also, society glorifies the negative aspects of the duality of self. Masculine is hard, war driven, strict and mean. Whereas, feminine is weak, indecisive and an overall damsel in distress. However, the proper & divine balance of the masculine and feminine within the Alpha Female is the reason she is balanced at the head and heart. Make no mistake about it, she is a flourishing and evolving feminine vessel as well, and at her best when her complementary partner can take the weight of protection, production and provision off of her shoulders. If you look around, most Alpha females are beginning to date other Alpha females because beta males are not sufficient and alpha males simply aren't attracted to them. So what is an Alpha female anyway? How does a woman know when she is one, how do you become one? Honestly, YOU ARE BORN ONE! Working a 9-5, having a car and a house are always a plus but it does not indicate that you are an Alpha-Female. Three important things define an Alpha Female
leader, straightforward about her needs vs wants, balanced in masculine and feminine energies, unconditional lover, master manifester, go getter, goal oriented, divine nurturer, community nourisher etc. Her key phrases are: "I AM" and "I WILL" An alpha woman is a past life and trauma healer, she taps into archaic records necessary to preserve and heal lineages. In romantic partnerships she tends to attract parasitic beta men, who both call upon her then run from her when answered. Remember, alpha females attract betas whereas alpha males seek betas. She consciously knows beta males do not have an adequate amount of energy in motion to protect and provide for her vision. DO NOT confuse Alpha Females with the "I don't need a man" type of women. They are more so the "I have a vision that I refuse to let go to waste by any means necessary" type. She is willing to take on masculine energy of her own to put her vision into action because she knows it is vital to her well being and more importantly her community and future lineage. She knows her strength is in vision so she truly seeks a protector and provider that will ensure it is fulfilled. For the FULL article go to www.urbanfreedommagazine.com and purchase the "Black History in The Making" Winter Edition Notes: Female and Woman were used interchangeably by CHOICE! A.F= Alpha Female A.M = Alpha Male Photography: @mikejon_ MUA @thenichequeen Jewelry: @Dimeofpearlcollections Model-Stylist-CreativeDesigner & Hair: @eclecticness_of_artreel #ARTreeL Third Eye Glasses: @MelaninReigns via melaninreigns.com Copyright © 2017 Melanin Reigns Essentials LLC. All rights reserved.
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First and foremost, let's be clear. The hyper-sexuality is not a myth but it is certainly a cover up, and it's time to break this cycle before it is passed down to our youth. Society has fed us such a bland & watered down version of what a man truly is, and the sad part is, even men believe & become it. The truth behind the lies is men who have A lot of sex and do not demonstrate respect for their bodies, are only that way because they aren't practicing healthier forms of release. . Such as; crying, talking about their true emotions, hugging, participating in vulnerable displays of art etc. So who's to blame for the insensitivity and extreme sexual indulgence of our men? EVERY PART OF SOCIETY, including themselves. Conformed society puts pressure on men to work hard and keep a mask of no emotions on. They teach both men and women that a man who is verbally expressive, and seeks comfort emotionally is weak and unworthy. Subconsciously he seeks to release somehow, but consciously he knows if he isn't careful he will be classified as inferior to men who withhold their feelings. This is why they exert so much energy upon sexual intercourse. It is said to be the most dominating and conquering method of expression, to which they will not be condemned. After all, a man that has sex with multiple women consistently is "The Man" right? WRONG, trust me he doesn't feel that way when he's home alone at night, which is why he avoids it by hopping in between each and every set of legs that he is aroused by. The entertainment industry relies on men who are weak in the flesh to profit appropriately. They need someone to sell sex to, So what better way to guarantee consistent consumerism, than to block off all other means of release for our men? Hospitals, pharmaceutical companies, porn sites, strip clubs and even "free" clinics benefit off of this same scheme. CheckPoint: Have you ever noticed the impatience of men during sex? Do you ever wonder why the sexual experience is over after he orgasms? The selfish, one sided, lack of orgasmic sex is due to this same unhealthy cycle of release. Not only is it toxic for a woman who is only receiving his stress, pain and sorrow. It's also equally frustrating, and can cause a woman to become insecure. Sorry ladies. . . They don't even realize why they do it. Most male artists spend so much denying their emotions, that something that could serve as a healthy release becomes low vibratory as well. Men will tell you do not "wife" a woman you have sex with on the first date because she's probably easily passed around, but truthfully the same can be applied in their case. But what if I said you might not want to take a man serious if he opts to have Sex on the first date because it shows he's easily distracted &his flesh is weak. Of course, neither of the previous two statements are factual or obsolete but when and how someone has sex with you, communicates SOMETHING nonetheless. Society's shallow state of mind equates sexual interactions to being a hoe But what a hoe may really stand for is
P.S: If you just happen to "like Sex" you'll value experiencing someone whilst learning yourself and evolving together for optimum results. So how do we fix this?
What should Men do?
Remember, healthy forms of release can save you from becoming aggressive. Do not let sexual tension turn into violence. Stop allowing the world to control your mind and body through your dickhead. SideNote: When you tell a woman she loses value after sleeping with you, subconsciously you are revealing what you feel about yourself. Namaste 🙏🏾 Copyright © 2017 Melanin Reigns Essentials LLC. All rights reserved.
1. Believe 2. Visualize 3. Be grateful 4. Listen to your heart 5. Continue your actions 💎. 💎. 💎. Goodbye Year of Completion. As we bid the old tax season goodbye(that's all it is really LOL) This is no lesson on numerology but I thought I'd share a few things with you all. This cycle has taught me that anything you envision for yourself is within reach. It doesn't have to be pretty and it may not be perfect but if you claim it, it is yours! No one else's success can take away from your own & yours cannot take away from anyone else's. Remain steadfast in your purpose and align your affirmations with action! You can assure yourself that although this was a year of endings, all the seeds you've planted are due to bloom in 2017. 9 months the pregnancy is completed, however the next stage of life begins for the baby thereafter. Much like Mercury retrograde, year 9 AKA 2016, was the year of reflecting, releasing and resetting. If you've been doing the necessary healing the universe urged us to do in order lighten our energetic bodies, then you understand why all of your goals were reachable but were not ready to unfold its true intensity as of yet. INDEED, the best is YET to come and boy are we deserving of it!!! We've seen major shifts in lifestyle, spiritual beliefs, education, politics and especially in black consciousness. The countless distractions within the media were nothing more than war tactics on the mind to blind us from the true evolution and renaissance that sparked & is currently taking place. Our youth are no longer satisfied with the mediocrity of society, thus they are opting to transcend it & with the support and trust of our elders, we will all be successful! The illusion of duality is fading right in the midst of the 3D plane. Many call the shift in intuition "Third Eye vision", but it is a return of the energy of oneness that is taking place. We all must look to our soul to tap into the infinite abundance. As strange as this may sound . . . . Be an empty vessel & open up your heart to receive and transmute unconditional love into all that you deserve! Health, Wealth, Evolution (it is limitless because you are limitless) . . . and when it comes to peace and prosperity It belongs to each of us Asè Writer: @MrsMelaninReigns Photography By: Christopher Robin Imaging LLC. Model: @MrsMelaninReigns Copyright © 2017 Melanin Reigns Essentials LLC. All rights reserved.
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Melanin Reigns is a spiritual counselor, freelance writer and multifaceted creator. As a performing artist with the Speak Life Tour, she takes on music, written/spoken word, and hosting as a form of mentorship and a way to give back to the community. On first and third Tuesdays Mrs.Reigns hosts “The Mentoring Clinic” on WOLB 1010, with intent to shine a light on community businesses and organizations. More than just a writer or entrepreneur she is 360 degrees of versatility. The motivation of her efforts is powered by her love for the inner child and rewiring of the human heart and psyche. For more online work visit the "Reading Reignbow" under the @MrsMelaninReigns on MelaninReigns.com You can find all social media pages under @MrsMelaninReigns Tune into Melanin Monday's at 10 pm Est on Facebook Live for insight and updates. -Where to Find Her? Facebook live 'Melanin Mondays' @ 11:30 a.m EST. The Mentoring Clinic WOLB 1010 am Radio 1st & 3rd Tuesday's from 1-2p.m EST Mrs. Reigns tours exclusively with Speak Life Tour , see Speaklifetour.org for dates. ALL Social Media @MrsMelaninReigns |